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Basically everyone is continually grappling with their OVERSIZED brain and in particular their OVERSIZED frontal lobe reasoning/cognitive area and the sometimes silly, Stupid and even RIDICULOUS & LUDICROUS thoughts and possible overall interactions and individual actions/reactions we can have. Thankfully most of us are strong enough and are of sound enough mind to do only silly or Stupid things and thankfully dismiss the MORE CRAZY RIDICULOUS & LUDICROUS ONES. However some more weaker people with more unsound minds cannot manage that and SOMETIMES end up doing RIDICULOUS and even LUDICROUS things. For example REFUSING TO TALK TO or EVEN WORSE COMPLETELY IGNORING a close family member even though they haven’t done anything so HORRIBLY WRONG or TERRIBLY BAD to deserve that. Yes they might have said or done something silly/Stupid and/or be somewhat quirky and say, do and get involved in somewhat quirky things BUT THAT TO ANYINE IN THEIR RIGHT MIND NEVER ANY REASON TO POINT BLANK REFUSE TO TALK TO THEM OR EVEN WORSE JUST TOTALLY IGNORE THEM. The only time it might be right to possibly DISOWN someone close to you is if they do or are involved in something REALLY HORRIBLY WRONG or TERRIBLY BAD. Of course ALWAYS with family members special exceptions and extra lea way SHOULD & MUST always be given. Anyone who has any issue with a family member SHOULD & MUST always try their best to sort that out with them. Within wrongness there are various levels depending on specific corresponding factors. With any wrongdoing there are always two main considerations to take when weighing up and judging which is the more BAD. First is that wrongdoing a response to another wrongdoing or an initiating wrongdoing and secondly the actual overall impact of the wrongdoing. Obviously it will always be the person behind the initiating wrongdoing that will be most responsible for everything that happens thereafter. However the intensity of any wrongdoing due to the initialising wrongdoing also plays a factor. If that is simply saying something untoward in the heat of the moment then that is not that serious. HOWEVER IF SOMEONE GOES TOO FAR WITH SOME REGRETTABLE PHYSICAL AGGRESSION THEN THAT IS A MUCH DIFFERENT STORY. Wrongdoing once again depends on two things, primarily who started the unfortunate situation and the level of maliciousness and harm in any response. Wrongness can be measured on a scale from 1 to 17 with 1 – 3 being silly, 4 – 7 being Stupid, 8 – 12 being RIDICULOUS and 13 - 17 being LUDICROUS. This is known as the PUFA scale. A PUFA is a Polyunsaturated Fatty Acid. This DHA molecule found in seafood and in particular shellfish that is largely responsible for all our good, bad and everything in between. It has enabled us all to have our most amazing and at the same time most horrific thoughts, interactions and actions/reactions. This ALL stems from our time or more specifically our ancient ancestors time between 150,000 and 75,000 years ago on the south eastern and southern African coast. Our ancient ancestors emerged in lower central Africa between 300,000 – 150,000 years ago and then naturally moved to the coast where they gorged on Omega 3 frontal lobe enhancing seafood and in particular shellfish for around 75,000 years. This DRAMATICALLY grew & increased their overall cognitive/reasoning powers. However the Pituitary gland which arouses/stimulates this overall cognitive/reasoning area remained more or less the same size. This resulted in a MAJOR IMBALANCE within ALL our brains that each and every one of us is continually grappling with on an hour to hour and day to day basis. Basically behind this struggle is the fact we are aware of this ENORMOUS reasoning power within our frontal lobes and we are all OVERALL FRUSTRATED at not being able to fully use it. Yes we can sometimes slightly access that with the aid of Alcohol or some other substance or drug or other. HOWEVER WE NEED TO BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT THAT. Opening up the UPPER REGIONS of our frontal lobes can result in ABSOLUTELY CRAZY THINKING and potentially ABSOLUTELY CRAZY NIGHTMARES. That is another advantage with Alcohol in that taken within moderation it does NUMB those UPPER REGIONS of the frontal lobe which also STOPS us DIRECTLY OVER THINKING about things, at least temporarily. HOWEVER AS WITH EVERYTHING WITHIN REASON. Basically Alcohol numbs the upper regions of the frontal lobe and therefore reduces the awareness of the MENTAL IMBALANCE within us and therefore indirectly reduces significantly out OVERALL FRUSTRATION resulting from that. However the problem is the more Alcohol we consume the more our frontal lobe becomes numbed leading eventually to us not being able to think right and ends up in us saying & doing possibly VERY SERIOUSLY WRONG THINGS. Then there are drugs which can directly increase arousal/stimulation of our frontal lobes POTENTIALLY SIGNIFICANTLY reducing our overall INNER FRUSTRATION that way. However unfortunately these drugs can become very addictive and they can lead to us basically doing nothing, not even basic essential things leading to us sinking into possible OVERALL DEPRIVATION. Of course if you are going to take Alcohol then ALWAYS do that in moderation and as less frequently as possible and if we are going to do drugs MAKE SURE NOT TO EVER TOUCH ANYTHING TO POTENT OR ADDICTIVE AND ONCE AGAIN KEEP THAT TO A MINIMUM. Basically how this all works is directly related to a cunning natural system which is within us and all other reasonably enabled beings. It all comes down to this relationship between the frontal cognitive/reasoning area and the Pituitary gland at the base of the brain controlling that. What essentially happens is when we are tired the Pituitary gland excretes more arousal/stimulant chemicals up into the frontal lobe reducing the gap between the stimulated and unstimulated frontal lobe and therefore indirectly reducing the overall frustration of the being concerned. This then enables them to relax/rest for their muscles and overall body to replenish. Alternatively once the muscles and overall body have been replenished the arousal/stimulant being excreted up into the frontal lobe is naturally reduced, naturally increasing the overall frustration and that way encouraging interactivity again so whatever needs to get done can hopefully get done. There is a natural base level of arousal/stimulation every reasonably enabled being is born with which makes them overall a little more or less overall aroused/stimulated. This also makes them overall naturally a little less overall frustrated/agitated/interactive or a little less overall aroused/stimulated and a little more overall frustrated/agitated/interactive. In us humans this is ideal so as firstly to have some people overall more frustrated/agitated/interactive to deal with the more manual/repetitive/mundane things that need done. Also secondly it is vital to have others overall more relaxed/peaceful/thoughtful to deal with more psychological/exceptional/different things that also need attention. However due to the VERY RAPID/ACCELERATED INCREASE in our overall frontal lobes between 150,000 – 75,000 years ago this has all become RATHER EXASPERATED. If you look at your pet dog and in particular cat and for example the cows in the field you will notice that in general under normal circumstances they are overall A LOT more relaxed and laid back than us. This is simply because there is a more natural balance between their overall frontal lobe and arousal/stimulation over that. Basically each time a neurone within in particular the frontal lobe is aroused/stimulated by the chemicals excreting up into there from the Pituitary gland a pleasure droplet is released. Obviously the more pleasure droplets that are released the better we feel. This Dopamine is what drives us to do and get involved in things to increase even more how better we feel. This is basically nature’s way of rewarding us for in particular doing what we need to do. However this also indirectly drives us sometimes to do and get involved in things we really shouldn’t especially when we are otherwise lower aroused/stimulated. Obviously the more overall naturally lower aroused/stimulated you re the greater the urge will be to get involved in more intense tings that then result in more neurones firing and more Dopamine to ne released and therefore greater pleasure. However in us humans this is a VERY PRECARIOUS thing as overall we are ALL very OVERALL FRUSTRATED increasing DRAMATICALLY the RISK we do or get involved in things we really would be better avoiding. Basically all reasonably enabled beings around us have around half of their frontal lobes aroused/stimulated with slight but significant increases & decreases with that to encourage more interactivity and more relaxation if/when needed. As a result under normal circumstances they don’t have the urge to do and get involved in not so good things. A dog or cat for example, except there is some underlying exasperating condition will naturally not do or even be drawn to do bad things. This why all other reasonably enabled beings, at least here on Earth are A LOT more overall balanced & grounded compared to us. As for any other reasonably enabled being out there in the Universe or COSMOS that is another story. However the hope is that they would have not experienced the rather UNIQUE set of circumstances which led to or ancient ancestors acquiring their/our EXTRA ENLARGED frontal lobe and SIGNIFICANTLY DIMINISHED Pituitary gland and all the issues to do with that. Of course above ALL else the main issue is our inherent TENDENCY to do and get involved in things we really shouldn’t. Hopefully any other reasonably enabled being/s out there would not be so inclined and would be more overall BALANCED & GROUNDED like all other reasonably enabled beings around us here on Earth. Whereas all other reasonably enabled beings around us have between around 50% natural arousal/stimulation over their overall frontal lobes we only have around 10 - 20% depending on if you are more overall naturally lower or higher aroused/stimulated. This is due to the DRAMATIC INCREASE in the size of our frontal lobes between 150,000 – 75,000 years ago while our Pituitary gland more or less stayed the same. Basically our ancient ancestors gorging on all that brain and in particular frontal lobe enhancing Omega 3 rich seafood and in particular shellfish over in particular those 75,000 years DRAMATICALLY GREW/EXPANDED our overall frontal lobes while our overall arousal/stimulation over that more or less stayed the same. This means we are quite literally overall X10 - 5 more frustrated/agitated/interactive than all the other reasonably enabled beings around us once again depending on if you are more overall naturally lower or higher aroused/stimulated. Therefore of course in more lower overall naturally aroused/stimulated people their resulting overall frustration/agitation/interactivity will be even greater due to a natural corresponding decreased arousal/stimulation. Basically everyone is overall naturally either 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, or 20% with a corresponding/related overall X5, 5.5, 6, 6.5, 7, 7.5, 8, 8.5, 9, 9.5 or 10 frustration/agitation/interactivity. This explains why some of us are overall more manic most of the time and others overall more chilled. HOWEVER WE ALL SHARE ONE THING AND THAT IS A GREATER DIFFICULTY DEALING WITH AND CONTROLLING OUR OVERALL SHARED INCREASED FRUSTRATION/AGGITATION/INTERACTIVITY. This ultimately leads to difficulties especially for those lesser naturally aroused/stimulated but also those more naturally extra aroused/stimulate. Of course the advantage is those of us who are naturally less overall lower aroused/stimulated will be extra good at the more menial physical things that need done and those of us who are naturally more overall lower aroused/stimulated will be extra good at the more creative psychological things that need done. Ever wondered why you find repetitive/simplified chores more difficult or impossible, well you could be more overall higher aroused. Alternatively ever wondered why you find more exceptional/complex things more challenging or annoying, well you could simply be more overall lower aroused. However never forget both are VERY IMPORTANT as otherwise those more mundane/repetitive thongs that need done would never be done and alternatively those more outstanding/exceptional things would never be dealt with. Lesser naturally overall aroused/stimulated people will be possible more prone to increased frequent lower intense inappropriations and to relaxing substances. Alternatively greater naturally overall aroused/stimulated people will be possible more prone to decreased frequent higher intense inappropriations and to activating substances. This is why more generally naturally higher aroused/stimulated people are more drawn to Caffeine while more generally naturally lower aroused/stimulated people to Alcohol. Also more generally naturally higher aroused/stimulated people will be drawn to more complex/psychologically challenging careers/pursuits/hobbies and lower aroused/stimulated people to more simple/physically interactive careers/pursuits/hobbies. There is nothing wrong with either as BOTH are EQUALLY IMPORTANT, just that there is that basic underlying difference within the population as a whole. However it is IMPORTANT to know or more to the point realise on which side you are so as to know the possible extra problems you might face and hopefully that way avoid them or at least reduce them. Once again lesser naturally overall aroused/stimulated people will be possible more prone to increased frequency lower intensity inappropriations and to relaxing substances such as Alcohol. Alternatively greater naturally overall aroused/stimulated people will be possible more prone to decreased frequency higher intensity inappropriations and to activating substances such as caffeine. Of course no one can control their thoughts but we all have the power to at least control our actions & reactions, at least those of us in our right minds. Each and every one of us has the individual choice and personal responsibility with what we do and what we get involved with. This Omega 3 Polyunsaturated fatty acid may be responsible for why we are the WAY we are but each and every one of us is solely ultimately personally responsible for HOW we are. Always dismiss more MAD thoughts & ideas and only ever end up only doing watered down versions of them. NEVER act on impulse and always think very carefully about everything you do or get involved in and in particular the implications of that for yourself and those around you and in particular those more close to you. Of course everyone will do & say silly things from time to time but mostly that can be simply dismissed. Life is way too short to waste any time over something Stupid anyone says or does especially when they themselves recognise how Stupid that was and at least tries to sincerely apologises and make amends for that. Always remember basically the reason people do very ridiculous & ludicrous things is all linked to and down to our distant past and our overly enlarged frontal lobes and resulting over enhanced reasoning/cognitive powers/abilities. Normally in reasonably enabled beings reasoning/cognitive powers/abilities naturally emerge gradually over millions of years. However we gained our dramatically increased reasoning/cognitive powers/abilities over just a fraction of that time. This has left us all grappling on a daily basis to desperately deal properly with our RATHER SUDDENLY DRAMATICALLY INCREASED OVERALL THINKING CAPABILITIES. We all have silly, Stupid and CRAZY thoughts but thankfully most of us can dismiss and ignore those and thankfully never act on them. However it is still all too easy even for those of us largely generally overall in control of our facilities to sometimes over say or over do something let alone those less fortunate with added physiological/mental difficulties/challenges. Even the best of us can make mistakes with controlling our SUPER ENLARGED MINDS. Of course no one can control what they think but thankfully most of us have the power to at least mostly control what we actually say and do. Yes of course even the best of us make mistakes and say and do things we regret. However the only thing we can do is keep that to an as absolute minimum as humanly possible and of course always sincerely apologise for anything untoward we might say or do. We all need to be especially careful in more stressful/difficult circumstances to avoid possibly mistakenly saying or doing regrettable things in the heat of the moment. By far the most horrible thing any of us have to deal with is other people’s sometimes overly excessive and potentially stupid behaviours. We are all overall physiologically/mentally unstable given our overly enlarged frontal lobes and we all have difficulty properly coping and dealing with that but for those of us with added other psychological/mental illnesses/conditions it is even more of a struggle to keep on top and in more or less control of their general behaviours/orientations. This means unfortunately they are even more prone to even more excessive wrongdoings than those of us without any other added psychological/mental illness/condition. Thankfully most of us can keep more or less in control of ourselves and what we might say and do most of the time with of course the odd mistake here and there but always keep in mind others around us might be having even more difficulties due to some extra psychological/mental illness/condition and will do even more crazier/senseless things. This of course is horrible to have to deal with especially with someone close to you but always keep strong and carry on trying to deal and do the best you can with that and keep any mistaken things said and done to an absolute minimum. It is of course only natural to get extra upset when extra hurt by in particular someone close to you. However remember they possibly may have an extra psychological/mental illness/condition and of course as with any action always keep any reaction to anything and everything and especially something like that to an absolute minimum and as controlled as possible. Always remember to always try your absolute best to keep anything and everything you might say or do as reasonable appropriate/sensible as possible and totally avoid saying or doing anything seriously or radically inappropriate/silly or stupid and in particular of course always totally avoid saying or doing anything extremely inappropriate/crazy. Where you do say or do something by mistake especially when dealing with in particular someone close to you with some possible extra psychological/mental illness/condition don’t beat yourself up about that but rather simply sincerely apologise about that and try your best to fix that. This is all anyone can really expect of you and in reality all you can do. So basically try your absolute best to keep all you say and do as relatively appropriate or at least as minimally inappropriate as possible. Of course we all need a little lea way to just relax, let out hair down and enjoy ourselves and of course also deal with more difficult/complex situations/issues and be able to say and do and get involved in slightly inappropriate things but once again this needs to be kept very much under control. Everyone is allowed to do some a little foolishness from time to time just for a little extra fun and/or simply a little relief from constantly dealing with and grappling with properly controlling their overly expanded frontal lobes and resulting sometimes extremely intensified thoughts. Also everyone needs to be able to do slightly extra things to deal with more difficult and complex situations. After all this is exactly why we all have an inflated reasoning/cognitive power/ability in the first place. However given our over expanded reasoning/cognitive power/ability this obviously needs to be properly controlled. So basically we all need to continually be properly constantly monitoring each of our actions and reactions and keeping them preferably within the reasonably correct or at least more or less not too incorrect. There is a grey area between the completely correct and seriously incorrect and those of us of a sound mind are more or less within this space most of the time with the odd silliness on occasions. However those of a more unsound mind can jump directly into stupidity, ridiculousness and possibly even ludicrousness. This is of course bad for them and those around them however often they are completely unaware of that due to some underlying extra psychological/mental illness/condition. Anyone doing seriously unusual inappropriate things, behaviours and orientations like turning totally against a Mum and/or Dad when they haven’t done anything so terrible to deserve that should of course set alarm bells ringing. Each time someone does something wrong a dark droplet is added to their overall memory. Clearly the more wrong someone does the more overall darker their overall memory becomes. Although doing extra crazy things may give an initial buzz and thrill in the end they are extra crazy and wrong. Obviously the darker someone’s overall memory is the more naturally overall dissatisfied and sad they are once the initial buzz and thrill of the particular wrongs has dissipated. Alternatively the more right things someone does the more light droplets are added to their overall memory and the more overall light their overall memory is and more overall satisfied and happier they are. Yes people doing extra bad things may seem to be very happy and even possibly ecstatic about that but in the end in the cold dark night when the realisation of the actual reality of what they have been doing finally dawns on them that will be a very different story. The only way to avoid that is not to do anything too overly wrong. As with any unknown it is basically 50/50 whether there is any sort of after existence or not. No one can say for definite there is but equally no one can say for certain there isn’t. However everyone needs to be prepared for that possibility. The only way anyone can ensure any sort of happiness in any possible forever is to keep extra stupid interactions & involvements to an absolute minimum and of course totally avoid any seriously ridiculous such as turning totally against a close relative when they haven’t done anything so terrible to deserve that and in particular any crazy ludicrous actions & reactions. How dark or light and overall sad or happy you are when you die will be what you will take over into any possible after existence. You never know when that might happen so always be prepared by making sure you keep all your actions & reactions and involvements as relatively appropriate as possible, apologise for any increased inappropriate thing you do and of course once again totally avoid anything seriously inappropriate. It is a very difficult situation/circumstance when anyone does something OVERLY EXCESSIVELY WRONG but in particular when that someone is a close family member. Of course the first thing to do in either case is to determine who exactly is more to blame. There are two types of OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR, either an OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE or an out of the blue OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR. In the second case it is fairly clear who is ultimately responsible. In the first case you need to look at the initialising/triggering interaction and then the resulting reaction/response to determine who is ultimately more at fault. If the initialising/triggering interaction is OVER EXCESSIVE then clearly it is the person behind that who is ultimately responsible. However if the initialising/triggering interaction was really not that serious then clearly it is the person behind the subsequent OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE that is really to blame. So clearly the first thing to do when dealing with any issue/dispute and in particular any issue/dispute involving a close family member is to truly properly determine who is more to blame for that and all that comes from that. Once again that is fairly obvious to anyone who really takes the time to correctly look. Clearly it is the person behind the either OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE or out of the blue OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR that is ultimately responsible and obviously needs to be talked to about that and shown that until they acknowledge that initialising/triggering OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR or OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE and apologises for that OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE or out of the blue OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR. It can certainly never be the person behind any innocent non serious behaviour that leads to some OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE that can be held responsible. This is why it is ABSOLUTELY IMPERITIVE that the right person i.e. the person behind the OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE or out of the blue OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR that is accused and not an otherwise innocent close family member. You certainly don’t want to end up chastising the wrong person as that would be totally horrific for them and of course a SHAMEFUL thing to do. So anytime you might find yourself caught up in some relative/family issue/dispute ALWAYS MAKE SURE TO DECIDE CORRECTLY WHO IS MORE TO BLAME i.e. the person behind OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE or out of the blue OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR. Whatever you do don’t get confused by some not so serious initialising/triggering behaviour and end up punishing the wrong person. Always remember it is the person behind over excessive reaction/response or out of the blue over excessive behaviour that is ultimately responsible and who really needs to be talked to about that and shown that until they acknowledge that over excessive reaction/response or out of the blue over excessive behaviour and apologise for that over excessive reaction/response or out of the blue over excessive behaviour. Also never break off total contact with any close family member unless they are incarcerated/imprisoned for some very serious crime. You never know when some free law abiding close family member who might have done something unfortunate may regret that and wish to amend that. This is why it is absolutely imperative to at least keep some basic direct line of communication with all free law abiding close family members even if they have done something unfortunate and in case they recognise that and wish to sincerely apologise for that. Of course if any close family member who has been horrible in particular with another close family member does openly recognise any wrongdoing and are sincerely regretful and apologetic about that then they should if course be forgiven. Remember it is those who have had some OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE or done some out of the blue OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR and refuse to even begin to accept that who should & must be confronted about that and made to see that until they recognise and sincerely apologise for that OVER EXCESSIVE REACTION/RESPONSE or out of the blue OVER EXCESSIVE BEHAVIOUR. It may be down to our ancient ancestors gorging on rich brain and in particular frontal lobe Omega 3 seafood and in particular shellfish between 150,000 - 75,000 years ago that results in us all doing and getting involved in things we really shouldn't HOWEVER IT IS NOW UP TO US TO DO WHATEVER WE HUMANLY CAN TO AVOID ANYTHING LIKE THAT. IN THE END THE RESPONSIBILITY LIES WITH YOU TO DO OR GET INVOLVED IN ANYTHING THAT MIGHT BE SERIOUSLY PRECARIOUS OR CAUSE POTENTIALLY SERIOUS PROBLEMS FOR OURSELVES AND THOSE AROUND US AND IN PARTICULAR THOSE EXTRA CLOSE TO US. As soon as you go out the door there is a good chance you might have to deal with someone of some group being extra silly, stupid or even RECKLESS. However you just simply need to accept that otherwise you would never go out. The first thing to do when encountering someone being extra silly is properly judging how extra silly or even stupid that might be. If it is just extra inappropriate then simply be polite and maybe say something polite and move on. If it is relatively seriously inappropriate then once again simply maybe say something corresponding and move on. If it is seriously seriously inappropriate then things start to get serious. Once again the best thing is just say something possibly in writing pointing out that it is seriously seriously inappropriate. However once something becomes radically inappropriate that is when the authorities might need to become involved. To help you assess the seriousness of someones silliness or even stupidity the best thing is give it a score. 1 – 3 would be perfectly appropriate, 4 – 5 extra inappropriate, 6 – 7 seriously inappropriate, 8 – 9, radically inappropriate and 10 extremely inappropriate. NEVER OVER INTENSIFY ANY SITUATION/CIRCUMSTANCE BY DOING ANYTHING OVERLY EXCESSIVE. Be proud of restraint and doing the more or less right properly measured thing. Of course the immediate thing anyone wants to do when facing any inappropriate behaviour is to up the anti and get the person back. However this of course can be catastrophic & disastrous especially when it comes to more radical and extreme inappropriatations.

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